I finally watched the Japanese film Departures last night and was astonished and blown away, both. The 2009 Oscar winner for Best Foreign Language Film also captured thirty-four other international film awards and, in my humble opinion, deservedly so. It took the difficult subject of “encoffining”, the ceremonial (and totally fascinating) bathing and dressing of the recently deceased which is performed in front of the family, and treated it with a lightness of touch and reverence that made it both moving and accessible. Add in a stunning soundtrack and cinematography and no wonder it was such a hit.
I’ve caught a rabid cold from the hubster so, much as I’d love to go on and on about it, I don’t have the energy. It’s hard to juggle a parade of soggy tissues and tea cups while trying to type so I thought I’d just leave you with the trailer for the movie. That way you can get a flavor of it for yourself.
The one thing I will say is that this movie captured the beautiful, uplifting experience I had over and over again with the dying and their families. It somehow managed to portray a little of everything that’s involved; the grief and joy, anger and humor, the awkwardness that so often arises in circumstances of profound intimacy, the need for forgiveness, the graphic elements involved, the enduring love, and the ultimate affirmation of life that comes when death is received with dignity and grace. It also captures how the gifts of those who die can pass outward in a spiral, swirling back into the lives of those left behind to aid in healing their wounds, both new and old.
I give this movie two thumbs up needless to say. Here’s the trailer:
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